Do you fail to understand the purpose of wedding biodata in a love marriage? Well, you are not the only one! Various people question the intent of biodata when two people are in love and have already decided to get married. It might surprise you but wedding biodata is more crucial in love marriages than arranged ones!
Your wedding biodata is the mirror of your overall personality and experiences in life. It is similar to your resume. However, the only difference lies in the purposes of the two. The former helps you get your dream job while the latter lands you with your compatible life partner. But how is a wedding biodata carrying any importance when you have already found one? Find out here!
Identity verification
You might think that when you are already in love with a person and know him/her for quite a long time, what’s the necessity of any background check? Well, a background check is still crucial.
The possibility of fraud and scams is equally high in love marriages as the arranged or online ones. Moreover, you are most vulnerable to get ditched from the people or scenario from where you least expect it. Though you might be all loyal and into the person you love but the same is not mandatory from the opposite party. He/She might be faking it to avail some personal benefits. Naturally, the person will try their best to woo you and win your trust in every possible way. So, you shall never stop being cautious and careful with them unless you are factually assured of their genuiness
The wedding biodata will help you with the same. The written proof will enable your parents and relatives to find out more about them. They can even visit their native place or confirm their story from their workplace or school. In fact, there are multiple other ways to confirm the authenticity of a person when you have a written record of their claims. So, do not chuck this step of making and asking for a biodata before you finalize your marriage.
Kundali matching
Apart from background essentials, the Wedding biodata has many imperative details to ensure a lasting alliance among couples. For instance, all the information regarding the zodiac sign, Gotra, age, birthday, birthplace, timings, etc. are required. The families of grooms and brides then bring the details to their respective pandits and astrologers to ensure the best match.
Wondering, what’s the point even if the kundali doesn’t match when anyway the couples are going to marry? Well, the zodiac signs and horoscope reading are not just imperative for kundali matching but also suggest solutions for different ‘Doshas’ in kundali. Since the alliance of the bride and the groom is not confirmed with enough ritual and kundali matching earlier, it is more mandatory than ever to do it afterward. The process will save you from mishappenings and accidents in the future which were quite possible otherwise.
Impress your in-laws
The in-laws will be unhappy till marriage in most families in India when someone decides to marry a person of their own choice. But you can save this from happening with your impressive wedding biodata!
Biodata is the same as the resume in jobs. More than your experiences and talent the way of expression takes the credit. You might have heard a more deserving candidate is overshadowed by the less talented ones. It only happens because of their much better resume. Likewise, you have to make an appealing biodata without missing any good details about yourself in it. Even if it is not related to your marriage, winning a champions league ain’t gonna disgust your in-laws, right? So, make sure you fill every little achievement, every little success in your wedding biodata to make it impressive for your in-laws. However, don’t fill it with lies. You are allowed to exaggerate your good points not fabricate them.
Re-affirming compatibility
You might have heard “pen is mightier than the sword”. Well, the phrase perfectly fits in justifying the point!
You might have feelings for each other and wish to spend a lifetime together. But that doesn’t guarantee your compatibility with your life partner. Instead, there are lot many more factors than just your feelings to strengthen your relationship. For instance, the family background, financial status, age, etc are equally crucial in deciding your compatibility for a lifetime.
However, you might know these things earlier. But there are fair chances of missing these details or not considering their importance before you see them on a piece of paper. The wedding biodata provides you with a written piece of information, which enables a better comparison of the compatibility factors between you two!
So, the importance of wedding biodata is not less but much more important in love marriages. So, make sure you make one and ask the same from your life partner before moving ahead with them. All the best!
